I discuss my child's dysregulations since age 8, worried about their academic success, social relationships, independence, and future job prospects. I become an expert on my child, attempting to make them fit into various environments. After negative feedback from school, I join Ideal Lab, where the focus shifts to my child's happiness and coolness, driving us towards our goals. The achievements include a happier child, reduced anxiety medication, and attending a one-to-one school. I find valuable community support with others facing similar challenges in Ideal Lab.