Recognizing the importance of self-connection and its impact on relationships, this video explores how neglecting oneself can be detrimental to connecting with others. By focusing on oneself, one can cultivate presence and deeper connections with others, as well as with God. The video highlights the practice of self-assessment to identify negative self-talk and commitments, and aligning with the gospel of Jesus to allow for the flow of God's love, peace, and freedom. Ultimately, putting oneself on the conscious list of relationships is a lifelong practice that requires faith.